impact of change on us
Based on my experience of dealing with people across the globe, I believe that change always has an impact us. The actual change event can be fairly small, the impact on us manifests itself as stress. In the change-stress-distress graphic, the black circle is the actual change. The perceived impact of the change will cause stress, which is shown in green. The stress level is still fine because it has not crossed our tolerance level, shown in red. This is key because when the stress expands to more than our tolerance level, the stress becomes distress.
when the stress becomes distress
As you can see in the graphic on the left, all that is visible is the red, which means distress. For people in this situation, it is now a rescue situation where the first priority is to rescue the person from the distressful situation.
.Unfortunately just because the person is no longer in distress, it does not mean that we can work on the change yet. Looking at stress graphic on the right, we still cannot see the change and therefore we cannot work on the change. We still need to get the stress under control and only then can the change be addressed.